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Danh ngôn của Gail Sheehy (Sứ mệnh: 9)

When men reach their sixties and retire, they go to pieces. Women go right on cooking.
The perceptions of middle age have their own luminosity.
To be tested is good. The challenged life may be the best therapist.
If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we aren't really living.
The delights of self-discovery are always available.
I do think taking the 20s to take the most chances you can is important, because you're not going to hurt anyone else during that time. And if you do have a partner, you need a couple years to rehearse that relationship.
If you begin to think you are solely responsible for keeping your loved one alive and safe, you will eventually find yourself playing God. This phase can develop into an unhealthy, codependent relationship.
We really only have two choices. Play it safe, or take a chance. For me, pulling back because of fear has always made me feel worse.