Danh ngôn của Mark Manson
Many people get into a relationship as a way to compensate for something they lack or hate within themselves. This is a one-way ticket to a toxic relationship because it makes your love conditional - you will love your partner as long as they help you feel better about yourself.
Many people get into a relationship as a way to compensate for something they lack or hate within themselves. This is a one-way ticket to a toxic relationship because it makes your love conditional - you will love your partner as long as they help you feel better about yourself.
Nhiều người bước vào một mối quan hệ như một cách để bù đắp những gì họ thiếu hoặc ghét ở bản thân. Đây là tấm vé một chiều dẫn đến một mối quan hệ độc hại vì nó khiến tình yêu của bạn trở nên có điều kiện - bạn sẽ yêu người bạn đời của mình miễn là họ giúp bạn cảm thấy tốt hơn về bản thân.
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- In our culture, many of us idealize love. We see it as some lofty cure-all for all of life's problems. Our movies and our stories and our history all celebrate it as life's ultimate goal, the final solution for all of our pain and struggle. And because we idealize love, we overestimate it. As a result, our relationships pay a price.
- True love - that is, deep, abiding love that is impervious to emotional whims or fancy - is a choice. It's a constant commitment to a person regardless of the present circumstances.
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