Danh ngôn của Deborah Tannen
In a world of status, independence is key, because a primary means of establishing status is to tell others what to do, and taking orders is a marker of low status. Though all humans need both intimacy and independence, women tend to focus on the first and men on the second. It is as if their lifeblood ran in different directions.
In a world of status, independence is key, because a primary means of establishing status is to tell others what to do, and taking orders is a marker of low status. Though all humans need both intimacy and independence, women tend to focus on the first and men on the second. It is as if their lifeblood ran in different directions.
Trong thế giới có địa vị, tính độc lập là chìa khóa, bởi vì phương tiện chính để thiết lập địa vị là bảo người khác phải làm gì và nhận lệnh là dấu hiệu của địa vị thấp. Mặc dù tất cả con người đều cần cả sự thân mật và độc lập, nhưng phụ nữ có xu hướng tập trung vào điều đầu tiên và đàn ông tập trung vào điều thứ hai. Như thể huyết mạch của họ chạy theo những hướng khác nhau.
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Các câu danh ngôn khác của cùng tác giả: Deborah Tannen
- Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone.
- Each underestimates her own power and overestimates the other's.
- Relationships are made of talk - and talk is for girls and women.
- We tend to look through language and not realize how much power language has.
- Conversations with sisters can spark extremes of anger or extremes of love. Everything said between sisters carries meaning not only from what was just said but from all the conversations that came before - and 'before' can span a lifetime. The layers of meaning combine profound connection with equally profound competition.
Các câu danh ngôn khác của cùng chuyên mục: Independence
- I'm one of seven kids, and I love being around a bunch of siblings because I think it teaches you independence, and it teaches you how to grow up quickly and also just be a good friend and be a good sister.
- Independence day is an interesting time to reflect on our strange fealty to institutions that the British left us, including those that were explicitly set up to be used against us.
- I pledged to put country before party and assert my independence when it reflects my principles or the needs of Central Virginia, and I have done that.
- Our Declaration of Independence was held sacred by all and thought to include all; but now, to aid in making the bondage of the Negro universal and eternal, it is assailed, sneered at, construed, hawked at, and torn, till, if its framers could rise from their graves, they could not at all recognize it.
- I should like to know if, taking this old Declaration of Independence, which declares that all men are equal upon principle, you begin making exceptions to it, where will you stop? If one man says it does not mean a Negro, why not another say it does not mean some other man?