Danh ngôn của Deborah Tannen
For girls and women, talk is the glue that holds a relationship together - and the explosive that can blow it apart. That's why you can think you're having a perfectly amiable chat, then suddenly find yourself wounded by the shrapnel from an exploded conversation.
For girls and women, talk is the glue that holds a relationship together - and the explosive that can blow it apart. That's why you can think you're having a perfectly amiable chat, then suddenly find yourself wounded by the shrapnel from an exploded conversation.
Đối với con gái và phụ nữ, trò chuyện là chất keo gắn kết mối quan hệ với nhau - và là chất nổ có thể làm tan vỡ mối quan hệ đó. Đó là lý do tại sao bạn có thể nghĩ rằng mình đang có một cuộc trò chuyện hoàn toàn thân thiện, rồi đột nhiên thấy mình bị thương bởi những mảnh đạn từ một cuộc trò chuyện bùng nổ.
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Các câu danh ngôn khác của cùng tác giả: Deborah Tannen
- Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone.
- Each underestimates her own power and overestimates the other's.
- Relationships are made of talk - and talk is for girls and women.
- We tend to look through language and not realize how much power language has.
- Conversations with sisters can spark extremes of anger or extremes of love. Everything said between sisters carries meaning not only from what was just said but from all the conversations that came before - and 'before' can span a lifetime. The layers of meaning combine profound connection with equally profound competition.
Các câu danh ngôn khác của cùng chuyên mục: Relationship
- Through all the relationship stuff I've gone through in the past few years, I know there are fundamental differences in how men and women view sex and how they view their futures.
- As we get more transparent with data sets about infrastructure and systems management, I have a feeling we'll see big changes in how we think about complexity and our relationship to our actions.
- My wife and I do not argue. We communicate. We talk. But we've never fought in our entire relationship.
- When I was right out of college, I felt competitive with some of the guys in my class over career stuff. It's funny now to think about it - that a friend getting a job or something had anything to do with me... I think that my relationship with my wife has played a pivotal role in the chilling out of Aaron.
- I had developed a relationship with one of the anti-abortion sidewalk counselors who stood in front of my facility. We talked regularly through the fence and she had asked me to go have coffee with her one day. I was impressed with her persistence and, honestly, I thought I would really like her if I got to know her.